When I was in Asia, I clearly stated where I was on my OKC profile, so the messages I received from other girls mainly led to interesting conversations. However, this does not only depend on your part, but other users as well. But the way I see it, OkCupid is like the random bar or coffee house or club or wherever people meet each other these days. Ive gotten much better luck with other online dating services. If you are looking for love on okcupid then you might be insane! I joined OkCupid last year while I was traveling in Asia.
So yeah, pretty good.
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The only issue is due to the phone app a lot of people just have pics in their profile and nothing else, so it gives you nothing to message them about. More of a semantic argument, but you could do the same number of approaches in real life and end up with the same results if your "perfect" approaches don't work. Placing them on your hidden list means they won't show up on your match results unless there are no other options. I first put the profile up at a time in my life where I was looking at polyamorous and pagan friendly networking sites and OKC fit the bill. I take that back, they rave about going back to school for their PhD, their personality type and remind us men at the end of their profile: